by his old black mammy nurse...Drusilla Herodsfoot was her name.....

i certainly don't CONDONE his use of the word...but i certainly UNDERSTAND his anger and feel his pain....i often ask him why he just can't move on.......btw missy tee says part of the problem is that Drusilla was his wet nurse for a year before she started dropping him on his head....so you can understand how conflicted he might be...