perhaps that's because you might be an ignorant slut and he's a gentleman ?.....and you may only be fit for dining with a pig like mesself.

...an example...i like to drink copious amounts of booze(whatever kind)smoke a smallish joint....then eat mesself into a semi stupor then indulge in some aspects of the physical manifestations of love....afterwards a nice vomit and voiding of the bowels and urethra......then mebbe make a few prank phone calls and finally fully sated emotionally physically and intellectually itch free sleep it all off....

the question then is with whom would you care to spend an evening dining and being entertained by ?